There is no positive or negative here. Your dating personality can change, and oftentimes it will over the course of our lives.

Humans are complicated, of course, and it’s possible to recognize characteristics of more than one type in yourself, but one will probably stand out for you more than the rest.
If you’re single and hoping to get into a relationship, knowing your own type and the type of those you’re meeting and dating can save you a lot of confusion and heartache!
So, which one are you?







1. The Avoider

As the name suggests, Avoiders avoid!

Common characteristics are:

Not being proactive about meeting more and new potential partners.

Getting easily frustrated and giving up when beginning to date or thinking about dating.“Half-assing” online dating efforts and flakiness when it comes to nailing down concrete plans. Generally uncomfortable flirting or putting himself/herself “out there”.







2. The Dreamer

Dreamers have a very active imagination when it comes to their love lives – even when they’re not dating at all.

Common characteristics are:

Prone to elaborate fantasies about a crush or being reunited with an ex. Becoming fixated on one person, even if that person hasn’t demonstrated a concrete interest in dating you.







3. The Martyr

Martyrs can find themselves in the same unfulfilling relationships and romantic entanglements over and over.

Common characteristics are:

Dating those who “choose” her or him, even when they’re not particularly interested in that person. Getting into relationships with those who mistreat or take advantage of her or him. Making excuses for their partner’s poor behavior, especially if they have a difficult past or childhood.







4. The Nurturer/Protector

The Nurturer/Protector is attracted to those they can care for and protect.

Common characteristics are:

Attraction to the “potential” in others – maybe an unrealized talent or admirable personality trait.Often “rescuing” partners from some distress – financial trouble, addiction, an abusive or otherwise toxic relationship, or a difficult period of life such as a job loss, health issue or death of a loved one.

Can become involved with people at a drastically different stage of life – someone who is much younger or has fewer resources than the Nurturer/Protector to handle their current situation.






5. The Charmer

The Charmer is a highly socially intelligent person, and is generally characterized by:
Natural charm and magnetism that easily attracts others. Feeling energized by the initial phase of attraction and seduction.

Feelings that monogamy is unnatural/unrealistic (at least for them).A series of short relationships or no relationships at all beyond initial days or weeks of seduction.




I would love to hear from you what’s your personality?


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