When it comes to dating, getting to the first date isn’t the hard part anymore—it’s having the first real-life conversation with someone.
Forget chemistry, what you ask and what you say can inevitably be the deciding factor in whether the relationship will make it to date number two.
An easy, organic conversation is always best, but naturally, we’re all a little nervous on first dates, which either makes us shy and quiet or turns us into chatterboxes or interrogators. That’s why we came up with 6 first date conversation tips to help your convo flow smoothly.
What is abundantly clear is that women and men are programmed very differently and this is particularly obvious when they date.
Below, I break down the not-to-do key dating attributes, I have researched on matchmaking:
Nothing screams entitlement, irritability more than being rude to a waiter
#2. Talking about an Ex
Until and unless you’re asked directly
#3. Being late
It makes a terrible first impression
#4. Not asking questions
Asking questions conveys engagement
#5. Talking too much, especially if it’s all about you
#6. Poor table manners
Watch your manner, even if you are drinking
When it comes to having a good first date conversation, it’s ok to stumble and make a few mistakes. There’s no getting around it, first dates are hard and can get awkward at times.
But if you keep talking, remember these tips, and focus on getting to know the other person you might surprise yourself by how easy the conversation will flow.
“The Greatest Things Just Happens Unexpectedly”
So, just go with the flow and enjoy your first date…
Here’s a suggestion: 97 Lines That Make A Girl Want You