The important things you ignore are the things that manifest into larger issues. It’s completely normal and healthy for couples to argue. But the longer the argument festers, the angrier you’ll feel and it is same with your partner too.
So, when you do get into a fight, try to get out of it as fast as you can, relationships aren’t about having a winner and a loser.
You’re on the same side so don’t feel bad about taking the first step to recover the fight. Here are some tips on how to behave the right way after it’s done:
#1. Cook something for him/her
There’s no better you can pull down your partner’s anger than making him/her an amazing meal! It shows your affection & love towards them.
It don’t have to be a great cook, even something like a hot chocolate or two-minute mug brownies can spread the magic! All that counts is the effort you put in the food, your partner will surely appreciate the fact that you’ve put in so much of effort and energy to create something especially for him/her.
You’ll get a quality time to spend after that & the more you’re spending quality time together, the more strengthen your relationship becomes.
#2. Flush your ego and text him/her a romantic message
This is probably be the most obvious, but also the most overlooked solution in the world! As i told earlier, relationships aren’t about having a winner and a loser. You’re on the same side. So, don’t hesitate to text him/her.
“Sorry” is a magical word! You can instantly change a person’s anger into affection with the help of this. If you think the argument was your fault, say sorry. If you’ve hurt his/her feelings, say sorry.
Put your ego in your back pocket, send your partner a romantic message and that’ll be the end of argument with your partner.
#3. Write notes why you don’t want to end the fight
So you’re not sure whose fault it was and you don’t know how to make things right. What you can do is talk.
Writing notes don’t seems like a great idea at first but believe me it’s really powerful, writing notes makes your partner feel important and loved.
You don’t have to bruise your ego and apologize if you’re not convinced whose fault is it! You can put a note on fridge stating why you’re angry. And if you’re not good with the ‘Notes idea’, just sit down and talk about what happened.
But before you start, set some ground rules. No screaming, no blaming, and no walking away. I’m sure you don’t wanna make things worst, so take care of this!
#4. Hold your partner’s hands, look into her/his eyes and express your love
If it’s your fault & really feel you need to clarify why you behaved a certain way, you can always do this later, when the fight is truly over and things have calmed down.
Expressing your love towards them will be the best way to accomplish it! Show your little love and caring by sharing sweet words and actions.
Whether it be engaging in small acts of affection such as giving your them a pat on the back or holding their hands during the walk, this little things can go a long way.
#5. Give them a hug
Couples fight. No matter how in love you are or how committed you are!
When there’s a misunderstanding or a disagreement, the last thing you want to do is to give them a tight hug & not to leave until they melt, it’s a great way to break the tension.
So, don’t be afraid to ask for a hug, and also be generous enough to give one. It can help avoid a bigger fight!
Fights can be good because it strengthens the relationship by increasing trust and also makes your partner know your thoughts, feelings and opinions. So, instead of being afraid, appreciate them!
” A Relationship With No Arguments Is A Relationship With A Lot Of Secrets”
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