In a relationship it’s good to have a compromising nature, compromises usually involve doing things for our partner that we would not normally do. But connection with dominance of only a single individual is not a relationship, it’s rather a leadership.
The difference between leadership & relationship is really small, there’s a thin line between them. You have to think over it because when you start dating someone you date him because you like him & he cares you, but with time this care fades in some cases.
When this care reduces this can be a sign that they don’t really love you, they’re just attracted to you which fades with time.
It’s not a good sign if you are constantly supporting your man, and he’s not doing the same for you. Never be willing to accept these double standards as a ‘normal’ part of your relationship.
Below i have flashed light on some of the key things you should never compromise with!
#1. You should never compromise your standards for him
When you’re feeling insecure, it’s sometimes easy to put someone else’s wants and needs before your own. But if you don’t catch yourself in time, you may lose a part of who you are.
So, ladies, don’t ever agree to anything that lets you step back. But this doesn’t mean you have to argue in every matter to satisfy your senses. Be a intelligent lady & keep the point of view that’s right.
#2. An attempt to solve all his problems
Being in a relationship it’s your right & duty to deal with your partner’s problem & give him the support he deserves. But if your partner is taking advises from you often related to work, it’s not good.
This will end up making him dependent on you for every problem in his life & i don’t think you want that. So, the best way to deal with it is to let him solve the problem himself, at the same time you also think about it & if he is unable to get out of it let him know your opinion.
#3. Giving up all your dreams & career for your man
Well, in most of the cases, man are smart enough to value each other’s professional life but there are some man who will want you to let go your dreams & career.
Think twice, if you really want to give up your career, no problem you have the right to do it. But if you’re letting it go for someone following his orders, you’re punishing yourself.
#4. Giving him expensive gifts all the time
It’s mostly the men who usually brings gifts, only in some cases a man gets lucky. If you’re in a relationship where there’s a casual exchange of gifts between both of you, it’s no problem rather it’s great for your relationship.
The bad side is if you keep giving him expensive gifts one after another, this can make his feel bad that he can’t afford such expensive gifts to gift you.
Also, this can make him greedy & he can just use your love to get what he wants. So, the moral is giving a few great gifts is no harm but giving a bunch of them rapidly is not a good idea.
#5. Change in your appearance for him
Until & unless you feel some physical change right, don’t settle. You don’t have to change yourself for anyone, i mean just look at you, You own this beautiful body with those amazing looks.
There’s no bad in making self-improvements, but don’t allow anyone to decide what’s good for you. Trust me if a person really loves you, he will never ask you to change. Love is not what sees outer beauty, it admires inner beauty.
Stay in touch with your inner self and don’t let anyone in this world change you. Self-confidence is the new sexy so don’t be afraid to highlight your own opinion every now and then! If your partner is a really loves you, he’ll gladly let you know of his appreciation.
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