Have you ever seen children fighting? After having a intensive fight they soon forget their quarrels with their friends and start playing together once again. This is the reason that generally they are always happy and smiling.
As we grow big, our ego climbs so high that even for our own mistakes we want others to apologize. A great man is who does not lose his child’s-heart over years. In order to create happiness and sense of fulfillment in our life, we must bring about a change in the way we think.
And in this your brain will be your great companion. A good thing about our brain is that it willingly adopts any changes that we bring about in our thinking patterns.
Don’t you want to be a master of your immensely powerful mind rather than being a servant of your own moods.
If yes, take a look at some of the most influencing factors that will help you gain a life full of happiness & pleasure.
#1. Surround yourself with peoples who share similar goals
The people we choose to surround ourselves impacts the way we think, act and feel on a day-to-day basis. With a positive group you will become a positive person & vice versa.
The more you talk positively, the more you imagine and discuss options. The more you brainstorm and believe in the possible, the more likely you are to achieve success.
#2. Challenge yourself with things that scare you
“The more you face your fear, the more it fades away”, I completely agree with this. I simply believe that by pushing ourselves and expanding our horizons, our personalities and mindset take on new shapes & we become capable to find the best, ever-improving version of ourselves.
#3. Do self-reflection everyday
Daily reflections are a positive habit. The main goal of regular reflections is to ask yourself thought-provoking questions so that you can develop a deeper level of understanding.
Do regular self-reflection & analyze how efficiently you are doing things that will make you a better person in life & guides you towards success.
#4. Choose 3 goals everyday & focus on achieving them
Giving yourself goals will make you more mature in dealing with daily life troubles. You just can’t imagine the pleasure you will gain by completing goals you set in the morning.
Each time you finish your goal list your mind gets more prone dealing with greater life troubles & thus resulting in your increased mind strength.
#5. Do any work with enthusiasm & devotion
No matter what you do, if it is to prepare a meal, close a deal, make a sale, make a delivery —whatever it is. Doing it with full devotion will gives you benefit in 2 ways.
First, it gives you self satisfaction & second, it make the person your well wisher to whom you provided your service to.
#6. Always get prepared, but also be ready to welcome sudden changes
We have little control over the circumstances around us. We can get prepared for a situation to face but when life comes at you with something new, accept that and make it your new mission to conquer the beast. That’s what makes you winner in real life.
A great way to change your thoughts is to appreciate and enjoy what you already have. It is impossible to change the world around you. So stop fretting when people do not come up to your expectations.
Enjoy whatever amount of success you have achieved instead of feeling sad about what you have not been able to achieve. It does not mean that you should not aspire for a still better life.
There is nothing wrong with always fixing higher benchmarks or goals, but failure to reach them should not spoil your enjoyment of what you already have.
“Happiness Is Not What We Get By Achieving Something, It Is Self-made”