Any Love life can be an unhealthy one. Bad relationships aren’t just limited to marriages or partnerships—they can occur while dating, in friendships, or families. Any relationship that is harmful or destructive to your physical, mental, or emotional well-being is a unhealthy one.
The signs that can spoil your love life are:
Sleeping back to back leads to intimacy suffer and can be a barrier to spontaneous intimacy
When i say intimacy it is important to remember that intimacy does not just mean sex! The real definition of intimacy is a close, familiar and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship.
The problem with many couples today is they get busy with their work, daily life, children and many other things that have to be tended to. This thus makes it impossible to have a intimate time together.
If you want to increase intimacy in our current relationship; first you need to communicate this to your partner. Scheduling time to talk and discuss topics such as this can be very beneficial.
If you have children, it is important to schedule a date night or alone time to do something you both enjoy. Remember, the more connected you feel to your partner, the easier it is to increase intimacy.
Hogging most of the duvet also signifies selfishness
Duvet stealers all have something in common. It turns out their childhood sleeping behaviors could be to blame for this seemingly selfish bedroom etiquette.
Research shows that those of who loved cuddling up to a toy bear or similar are also more likely to toss and turn at night.
You just can’t help it as it’s in their system but you can play smart. You can make sure that you have rolled over onto part of the blankets, and then use your body weight to anchor down your side.
This will be your best bet because if there’s one thing a comforter thief isn’t interested in, it’s exerting effort!
Fights over temperature of the room can also be a spoiler
Metabolism is the biochemistry of turning calories into energy. The rate of a person’s metabolism has a lot to do with how much energy that person needs to expend to stay at a comfortable temperature.
Women typically have lower metabolisms, so as you’d expect they tend to be cold at a temperature men find comfortable.
And that’s where the conflict begins, the temperature of the room!
If none of you’re getting on a point of room temperature you both are comfortable with, it’s better to adjust. Say, for half of the time you agree to your partner’s choice & half to your’s.
Too much space between partners can be a sign of far bigger chasms
Maybe you have an unresolved argument or one of you is avoiding sex. One in ten couples said sleeping apart caused their relationship to fizzle out and 28 per cent admitted it meant having sex less often.
It could indicate towards unresolved issues and facing in opposite directions is a bar to spontaneous kissing, intimate chats and eye contact.
Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances. When sexual problems occur, feelings of hurt, shame, guilt, and resentment can halt conversation altogether. This thus leads to separation!
It’s perfectly appropriate to tell your partner what you feel in the middle of night, Create an atmosphere of caring and tenderness; touch and kiss often.
Expressing your openness possibility while you are both still alive will likely relieve guilt and make the process less difficult for the surviving partner later.
So, if you think you’re struggling with any kind of emotional issue (or your partner is), I’d really love you to get the help you need to overcome those difficulties right now. You can find tonnes of info right here on my site to get you on the right track.
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